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From Self-Sabotage to Executive Transformation, The Journey of a Leader Who Redefined Success
There’s something about the word “leadership” that can feel like it belongs in a corporate playbook, a stiff, suit-wearing, jargon-filled fantasy land where boardrooms buzz with strategy talk and every executive is a beacon of confidence.
But what if leadership isn’t about knowing all the answers?
What if it’s about presence, the kind of presence that commands respect, builds trust, and creates transformation in the workplace?
Kathryn Ficarra didn’t set out to become an expert in executive presence and cultural transformation, life, and a series of hard-hitting personal realizations, led her there.
Her journey isn’t the typical “rise to the top” story. Instead, it’s about falling, breaking, rebuilding, and ultimately stepping into an entirely new paradigm of leadership.
This is the story of how she went from navigating corporate boardrooms and multi-million-dollar negotiations to helping executives cultivate their power, presence, and influence in the most authentic way possible.
Hang On, Holy Sh!t: A Netflix-Worthy Year of Transformation
When asked what the last 12 months of her life would look like as a Netflix special, Kathryn doesn’t hesitate:
“Hang On, Holy Sh!t.”
Because dramatic change doesn’t knock on the door, it kicks it down.
Her life over the past year has been a wild ride of unexpected shifts, deep realizations, and personal breakthroughs. It wasn’t about merely surviving, it was about waking up to her true calling.
But to understand how she got here, we need to rewind.
From Corporate Success to Personal Crisis: The Moment That Changed Everything
Kathryn spent over two decades in Corporate America, crushing it, making an impact, and winning in every measurable way.
But there was one problem: She wasn’t winning with herself.
She had climbed the ladder, checked the boxes, and built a life that looked impressive from the outside. Yet, something inside her felt completely misaligned.
At first, the signs were subtle, whispers of dissatisfaction, a nagging feeling that something wasn’t quite right. But then, right before COVID, everything came crashing down.
She walked away.
From her job.
From the life she had built.
From the identity that had defined her for years.
And for the first time, she had to ask herself:
“Who am I when I’m not chasing success?”
Breaking the Habit of Being Herself
Someone handed her a book, Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself, and it hit her like a gut punch.
Because who she had been up until that point wasn’t the person she wanted to become.
The big house.
The fancy car.
The success story.
None of it meant anything if she wasn’t aligned with her purpose.
For years, she had been stuck in a cycle, chasing external success while battling internal misalignment. It was like living inside a house with stunning architecture but a crumbling foundation.
So she made a choice.
She hit pause.
She did the inner work.
She redefined what success meant.
And in that space, she discovered the power of executive presence, not as a corporate buzzword, but as a deeply personal, transformational tool.
The Truth About Executive Presence (It’s Not About PowerPoints and Polished Speeches)
When most people think about executive presence, they think about:
✔️ A firm handshake
✔️ A commanding voice
✔️ A perfectly curated LinkedIn profile
But that’s not real presence.
According to Kathryn, true executive presence comes from identity, mindset, and embodiment.
It’s the intangible force that separates a leader who merely manages from a leader who inspires.
Presence is your power.
It’s the way you enter a room.
It’s the energy you bring to conversations.
It’s the ability to align your words, actions, and intentions in a way that makes people want to follow you.
And here’s the kicker, most executives are running on autopilot, completely unaware of the paradigm they’re operating from.
The Identity Trap: How Leaders Get Stuck
Many executives don’t realize that they’re stuck in a belief system that isn’t serving them.
They’ve been conditioned to think that success comes from:
🚀 Always being busy
🚀 Always having the answers
🚀 Always pushing harder
But that leads to burnout, dissatisfaction, and self-sabotage.
Kathryn’s breakthrough?
You don’t need to reinvent yourself, you just need to REVEAL the version of yourself that already exists beneath the surface.
She calls it The Impact Framework, a 13-week transformation program that helps leaders uncover their authentic executive presence by focusing on:
✔️ Identity Alignment – Understanding the subconscious beliefs that shape how you lead
✔️ Mindset Mastery – Breaking self-sabotaging thought patterns and rewiring for confidence
✔️ Authentic Communication – Speaking with clarity, conviction, and impact
✔️ Consistent Embodiment – Aligning your inner beliefs with your external leadership style
This isn’t corporate fluff, it’s a real, evidence-based transformation that turns executives from stressed-out, reactive managers into high-impact, self-assured leaders.
Are You Leading from Power, or from Fear?
Most leaders don’t realize they’re operating from a place of primal fear.
They’re stuck in a fight-or-flight cycle, reacting instead of responding, grinding instead of growing.
And the result?
🚨 Chronic stress
🚨 Decision fatigue
🚨 Self-doubt disguised as overwork
Breaking free from this cycle isn’t about working harder, it’s about shifting how you see yourself.
Instead of:
❌ “I have to prove myself.”
✅ “I am becoming the leader I was meant to be.”
Instead of:
❌ “I don’t belong in this room.”
✅ “I bring unique value that no one else can.”
Instead of:
❌ “I’m not good enough.”
✅ “Not today.”
(Yes, “Not Today” is a game-changing mindset shift, and you should probably put it on a T-shirt.)
The Leaders Who Work with Kathryn See a Massive Shift
Executives who go through her Impact Framework don’t just walk away with better leadership skills, they walk away with an entirely new way of showing up in the world.
🚀 They communicate with confidence.
🚀 They lead with clarity.
🚀 They stop second-guessing and start owning their power.
And in a world where presence is the ultimate currency, that’s priceless.
How to Work with Kathryn Ficarra
If you’re reading this thinking, “Damn, I need this,” you’re not alone.
Executives, leaders, and organizations bring Kathryn in to:
✔️ Speak at leadership conferences
✔️ Run executive coaching sessions
✔️ Teach companies how to develop authentic, high-impact leaders
She’s active on LinkedIn, and you can find her at CGroup Studio or on Instagram (@thecgroupstudio).
Her upcoming book, “Your Presence is Your Power,” dives deep into her transformational framework, so stay tuned for that!
In the meantime, if you’re a leader who’s feeling off-track, misaligned, or just plain stuck, ask yourself:
❌ “Am I reacting to life, or am I creating it?”
✅ “How can I step into my power TODAY?”
Because your next level of leadership isn’t waiting, it’s already inside you.
It’s just time to reveal it. 🚀
1 comment
I relate – I definitely need this!